凄いBlog Q32025  #2

ZoneOneSummer #Thursday

8/21/25 #August
Aim: 15mins
7:05PM-7:20PM: #15mins

900words

[[Magic of Having a Proper Bite]]
[[Essence of General Knowledge]]
[[Power of Supremely Calm Thoughts]]

[[Aim For Serenity]]
[[Aim For Cooperation]]
[[Aim For Understanding]]

[[Gratitude Towards Dr. Francesco Maratta]]
[[Gratitude Towards Greaves Corporation]]
[[Gratitude Towards Pamin]]

I’m overwhelmed with gratitude right now, it’s spectacular. After 12 years, I have finally gotten a bridge, for a tooth that I lost back in 2012. And I think I’ve never been so happy, till today. Even when I got married, I was super hesitant about a lot of things, but today, with everything combined, I am more happy than I’ve ever in my whole life. And that really is the truth right now. The day I got married, that was also a day, that led to today. Because, although I wasn’t able to tell all my favorite people, I met someone who has totally changed my life, by being there for me, through thick and thin moments, through the best of times, and through the worst of times. It really has been my greatest source of strength, for the last four years. Also within this time, after a few months into my marriage life, that I started writing.

And it genuinely has led to today’s trajectory. We really can control our thoughts, I genuinely believe that with all my heart. Something that [[Robert Sapolsky]] said, in [[Determined]], that has really stayed with me, for a long time. And he argued that a lot of things in life is determined already, and that was something that was super hard for me to accept. And to an extent, in the short term, a lot of things really are determined, like he said, but I genuinely believe with all my heart, we do have control over our life, no matter how tough it gets. I genuinely believe that with all my heart.

And today, after 12 years, finally getting to bite on my left side, it’s an amazing experience. More than just being able to eat, and I haven’t even really even tried, since I didn’t really eat on that side, for the last 12 years. And now, I can eat, but more than that, I can genuinely have proper mouth posture, and it’s super incredible for me. And I am genuinely so happy, a huge sense of relief, has come upon me, and I cannot express in words, how much gratitude I’m feeling right now. [[Dr. Francesco Maratta]], he has changed my life. And [[New Haven Prosthodontics]], a huge shutout, because I’ve never been this grateful, in a very long time.

And maybe it’s just the moment, and maybe any dentist could have done the same thing, if I went through with the bridge years ago, but those don’t matter, because for me, only this moment matters, and I am supremely grateful towards [[Dr. Maratta]], and I really cannot express with words how grateful I am feeling right now. I’m had a bunch of tragic moments in my life, that gave me a lot of trauma, and there are certain things that I still cannot express fully, because I fear being judged. And the truth of the matter is, human beings always do have bias, no matter how much we think we don’t. And yes, I do believe, once we do get along well with other people, the predetermined bias does dissipate, but that takes time, and initially, the judgment is always there, as it’s a predetermined wiring in us, so we can live, and protect ourselves.

And this is a thing that protects us, and it’s something that I have learned to respect. Because we do have to play it out, and see how each individual acts. And the truth of the matter is, a lot of things are predetermined, and what somebody really is going through, in their own life, what is actually happening, it’s really supremely hard to determine. On the facade, everything can be dandy, but it really is super hard to tell, who is suffering in what way. And once we do acknowledge, everyone is genuinely trying to survive on this planet, it really does become easier to relate. And being able to have a functioning body, with proper posture, not just a body, but all the mechanisms that enhances us as human beings, it really is a very amazing thing.

And I just want to put it out there, it takes a lot of effort, to consciously understand a lot of these things. But once we do have enough knowledge, and we are aware of what is happening, life genuinely can become super amazing. And it takes skill, and effort, and discipline to really reach a tipping point, where other people can see what we see. And I genuinely feel like today is one of those days, that I will remember for the rest of my life. And it’s a tipping point for me, something that [[Malcolm Gladwell]], said really well, and I do consider myself a [[maven]], because I do love connecting people. And being a trilingual individual, that knows [[Bangla]], [[Japanese]], and of course [[English]], it has given me perspective, that really does enhance the way how I see things. And I am so grateful I have this skill now, and I wish to share even more amazing things, in the following months to years, on this site. And I genuinely am the happiest I’ve ever been.